For Women: What Does Independence Mean? Make Your Own Rules

Area: Women’s Interests

Are you too dependent on your man? It’s time to get independent. If needed, break some rules and make new ones. Ha ha! It’s high time to enjoy the mojo of life.

What would independence mean to you? To me independence means being financially free and be able to go places within my budget and buying stuff for myself. I would however not venture to go out at night. I would complete all my duties and To Dos within the day. I would not share all my personal problems with just anyone – only the people I trust. I would have big thoughts on my life overall and dream big dreams which I would like to materialize with all my perseverance and determination. I would do anything I love to do for my peace of mind and for my satisfaction. These are some of the rules I have set for myself to enjoy and benefit from my life.

How about you? What are your dreams and aspirations? How would you like to get independent? What are the rules you would like to follow? What changes would you like to make to your rules so that your dreams can get manifested faster? What is the tiniest action you could take today towards them?

Consider the above questions and make your new rules a priority. You are bound to get more independent. Think also what actions you could take to make your new rules. Now that’s a lot to take in. You don’t have to do everything today. It can be one action/thought per day and you go slow.

Everything you want can come to fruition. Remember you are making new rules to get more independent and make your dreams a reality. Isn’t it? So be consistent, modify your rules as you would like and get out strong and more independent. Sounds good?

All the best,

Rosie

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How Do You Correct Your Problems?

Area: Self-Improvement

Ever wondered what the easiest way to correct your problems could be? Read on.

When you have a plethora of problems, you don’t get to fix them but focus on their solutions. How do you arrive at solutions? By correcting your thinking. Remember your negative thoughts gave rise to your current problems in the first place.

Here are a few pointers:

1)   From a brink of positivity, dwell on swarms of positivity

When you replace your negative thoughts by positive ones and dwell on positivity, you start to see solutions and your problems dissolve.

2)   If you are challenged by life, try sharing a funny real-life anecdote with someone

Laughing and smiling over a funny real-life anecdote with a friend or family member immediately puts you in a lighter mood and you are better able to arrive at solutions to your challenge.

3)   Visualize lovely images

To give your mind a break from negative thoughts, dwell for a few seconds on calm and serene beautiful images you have encountered in the past. This immediately helps to better let problems fix themselves.

4)   Sing or play a musical instrument

Either singing or playing a musical instrument detaches you from your problems, taking you to a heightened peak of tranquility. This largely helps to ease your mind and you are free from the chain of negative thoughts and ready to come to solutions to your problems with your creative thinking.

Summing up, those are a few pointers that could help you abandon your negative thoughts and arrive at prospective solutions to your problems by correcting your thoughts.

All the best,

Rosie

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How to Overcome Your Fears

Is there something you are afraid of? How do you get past that? Do you think you can handle it? Yes, you can overcome it. Read this article to find out.

Here are a few pointers:

1)   Do more of the stuff you are afraid of

For instance, the huge workloads presented to you per week at your office drive you nuts and you are always afraid if you are able to meet the deadlines. So in this case, you should practice handling more of these projects, distributing and dedicating them to team members while carrying out your portion(s) of the work. Bit by bit everything will fall into place and it becomes a game of life in which you always win.

2)   Say to yourself a comforting quote and you will be okay.

If something intimidates you like walking or traveling by boat in a storm, say to yourself for instance, “This too shall pass”. The minute you make this statement, the rush of adrenaline in your body takes lower pace, color comes back to your face and you are thinking without stress. There is great power in this statement. So use it whenever something frightens you.

3)   Talk to somebody about your fears

Share your fears with somebody and that person will surely help to even your concerns. Laugh and smile, making your fears even lighter. Sometimes your fears are just imaginary and they never really happen in life.

4)   Confront it upfront

So you are afraid of something, completely immobile and paralyzed. Do a mind shift, confront it and finish with it. It takes brevity and when no one is around to help, you will have to do it by yourself. For instance, I hate lizards. One day I was alone all by myself at home. On the rest room door, there sat a lizard. It was still and it didn’t move or go away. I hated to confront it but nevertheless I got a hard soled shoe and insect spray and sprayed on it all over. It got detached from the door and fell on the ground. I smashed it then with the shoe and got finished with the job, clearing away the mess. It only requires the right mindset to confront your fears. And the strength is always there within you. So just tap on it.

Summing up, these are some of the pointers that will help you to get over what really frightens  you. Implement them, as appropriate and you will thrive.

All the best,

Rosie

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