How to Embrace Meeting New People Without Being Nervous

Area: Networking

Does meeting new people make you nervous and uncomfortable? Fear not – I give you a few tips here in this article to overcome that. Please read on.

Here they are:

1)   Make small group discussions first including both new and old people. Once you get habituated to that, try bigger groups. Make announcements; volunteer to give speeches.

2)   Once you are done with the above, drive to new places, book a hotel and attend conferences. See how people present their papers. Make friends with them and keep in touch. Then start writing your own publications in conferences. If they accept your paper, go attend their conference and deliver your presentation which you have already rehearsed a couple of times. Life will feel good to be heard by so many people about your research. There will be questions from the audience and you answer them all enthusiastically.

3)   Assuming your niche concerns research, write more and more publications, attend conferences and deliver your speeches, make friends and have a lovely time.

4)   You will overcome your shyness professionally. Likewise socially you can overcome your problem of meeting new people by going to most of the parties you are invited. Make friends wherever you go, keep their numbers, meet in get-togethers and yes, you will overcome your problem

5)   Socially or professionally, the trick is the same that is, doing more of the stuff that make you fearful or shy. Once you get habituated to that, yes you will have made it with flying colors.

Summing up, in this article, I speak of both in professional and social terms, how you can say goodbye to your problem of meeting new people, speaking to them, being friendly, keeping in touch and soaring high.

All the best,

Rosie

Alias Pinky

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Benefits of an Interesting Conversation

Area:  Networking-> Books

How do you generally converse with others? Is it interesting or boring? This article gives you a few tips on how to converse in an interesting way and the benefits you get. Read on to find out.

Here are the tips:

1)   While you turn on an eager ear, grab everything the other person has to say. Details such as homes she lived, the roles of people in her life, how many children she has, what they are doing and what brought her to the current status will help.

When you collect information about the people you meet (that info they are willing to give you), make a note of them. Guess what you may write a fiction story based on their lives under new names. So monetize the exciting conversations you have with people wherever you go.

2)   So long the other person can speak and write in English, listen to their interesting stories and ask them to coauthor with you (those who look promising). That way you can share your ideas and themes and place them nicely in the form of a book and sell it on Amazon.

3)   The more you write about interesting people after conversing with them, the more you will know what the audience likes to read and leverage the themes of your books to satisfy them.  It is a simple trick and it always works.

4)   How do you know how much the interesting people in your life are willing to reveal about them? Just ask quick questions until they are able to say no longer. Give them space and make them feel comfortable but never say that you are willing to put them in your fiction stories. Because otherwise they may feel discomfort and unable to talk about themselves any longer, feeling numb and insecure.

5)   Make others feel good by directing your conversations in exciting and invigorating ways making the other person willing to converse more and more. Once the conversation ends uninterrupted, both of you have something to gain. The person conversing will feel full of joy and happiness because somebody was interested in his/her life story which s/he was willing to impart while the person with the listening ear will have extracted a new story with bends and twists, which is likely to be liked by the big audience out there once you have it in print.

Summing up, these are a few tips on how you can produce stories from people’s lives by allowing a listening ear and making the other person fulfilled. The more interesting conversations you hold with people, the more people you get with their exhilarating journeys until today and the more you have the capacity to put in print and monetize.

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     -Rosie

      Alias Pinky

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